Children should get disciplined and punished sometimes when they slip up on do something they are not suppose to... And this is always the case when you have parents who are very strict... They make sure thier kids get checked all the time when they catch them doing something wrong... Being as strict as can be on your children is the most essential thing to do in thier up bringing...
Of course you got to make sure they are fed sheltered and taken care of the way they are supposed to... Raising them is even more important... They will be out there in the world one day... They say one bad apple spoil the lot and its true... diseases that are contagious do spread... And all it takes is one host to passed it off to a whole lot of people...
Then those people pass it off to more and more people... next thing you know a whole nation gets infected... There are a essential set of behaviors that we should grow up with... Principles we should have and live by... If you raise your children right with strict rules and regulation nothing nor no one out there can change them and cause them to rebell....
Not even peer pressure at school... Being a parent takes a whole lot more than just getting up one day and decide to have a baby... And boom a child has come into this world... You should be fully prepared before you even think about having a child... You got to make all the right kind of adjustments... Ready yourself up...
Develop the right kind of mindset... Be very sure that they will be taught in a strict and proper manner... So when they go out there in the world they are able to project themselves in a positive light... Don't just go and have a child without preparing yourself mentally... two inkless pens cant write anything... And Two empty containers wont pour out any substance....
You wont go driving two hundred miles away if your gas tank is one stroke away from empty... You would stop at the gas station... Right... When building a house you make sure you have all the right kind of materials... Not having the knowledge of how to do something can cause you to make a whole lot of mistakes...
The predators in the jungle like a lion for example crouches in the bush and wait till they get close enough... Then boom... They strike and catch their prey... Which is strategic... Everything you do in life require of you to have a certain kind of strategy... I said all the above to say this... All things in life requires a certain kind of approach...
And we all know this as a people... The majority of us have it in our head that its easy for us to raise a child once we have a house... A means of transportation... A good job and money to buy the kids anything they want and take them wherever they want to go.... That part is easy... But while you are making sure your kids getting whatever they ask for...
You are also setting them up to be a nuisance to society If you don't do it the right way... Kids should get whatever they want yes... but only if they truly deserve it... Good grades... All chores got taken care of... Manners and respect constantly executed and always up to par... Home from school on time and not hanging out with friends and being indoctrinated by them to cause mischief....
There are just so much you got to take into consideration before having kids... You need to have the right kind of system that they are raised by.... Don't let next door neighbors friends nor no family member tell you that you are being to hard on them.... You need to be hard on your kids... Its very much nessary for thier growth... Don't let them do what they want to do...
You decide what they should and should not do... If they hate you for it... So be it... Don't tell yourself that you not gonna be too tough on your kids because you dont want them to hate you... They wont hate you for steering them right... Only for the moment cause they don't know any better...
Once they grow up and become mature with the wisdom and knowledge that you have extended to them they will use it to realize that they have been raised the right way... And even get upset with themselves for having hated you for all the wrong reasons...
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