Hurt people can be a dangerous combination
Especially if you're alike in more than one way.
You tend to hurt people unintentionally with words and with actions.
Now I'm not saying to ignore the signs of someone telling you the truth of who they are, but do allow the grieving and the attempts a little time to amend itself where it rightfully stands.
The fire, literally, are flaming high and strong. If 2 people are meant for each other there has to be verbal understanding and willing commitment towards each other.
It's not one sided.
But if your actions could have diffused the situation prior to the massive destruction... Then own up to it
Admit it!
Stop pointing fingers and just admit it!
©tynethayes
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