When you let others into your world and journey, sometimes we forget not everyone will be in our story full time because sadly others do come and go... sometimes by choice other's decisions are sadly out of their hands
Be it humans or animals, it never changes the fact that it hurts like Hell when they are no longer by our side
Not everyone will tell you "there will be times you'll need to say 'Till I See You Again'" and/ or "unfortunately, you'll need to try to continue on with life at times feeling empty, broken, lost, crushed, unmotivated, defeated, etc"
There's no easy way to let someone you deeply and truly love go without feeling the gut wrenching pain with every step, you continue life knowing you can't see them anymore...
No amount of time or tears that pour out of you can force you to forget the memories that haunt you everyday a loved one is no longer beside you...
Some might even say it's not 'goodbye' or 'they aren't gone' but it's difficult and it won't be the same when you can no longer see, hold, have conversations with them answering you back, and just simply be in the moment with them especially when you really needed them even though it can sound selfish
Sometimes it's easy to forget that the life we live on earth isn't forever and tomorrow Isn't a guarantee
But it sadly isn't uncommon to accidentally take moments and seconds for granted
One thing is for sure in my book, No One Is Easily Replaceable 😡
No one can fill a hole or take over a place that was from someone else and you can't force anyone to feel otherwise
Others can make there own space in someone's heart and soul but they can't claim a place that wasn't there's to begin with
Each person has a right to how they feel because we all have our own emotions and belief, not everyone will always agree but that's what comes with being our own person, just don't let your differences be strong enough to turn into something you might regret, even so it can be easier said than done
No One should Ever be told to 'just get over it + be okay about it' 💢 that's truly and unmistakably one of, if not the most insensitive things you can say
You've literally just lost someone... we may not mourn the same way but moments like this is where you feel raw, vulnerable, lost, angry, depressed, hurt, sometimes drowning with helplessness, or sadly sometimes even hatred, and much more emotions swirling
These are the times in life if someone's reaching out and you can help them, just do what you can... even if they didn't say they needed help because there are chances, the one that's hurting is out there trying to stay strong alone
So if you can, be on call, text, FaceTime, sometimes check in with them... just show them you're there and available even if they may deny it
At times, what someone will need is just to be Heard Without Judgment and Unconditional Support with Extra servings of Love
©fluffykarm
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