Judgement in the Church
If you do anything that go against the commandments it's a sin. And if that person doesn't believe in God they can't be your friend. Being a Christian people want you to follow things in order. I started being judged by members of my church when my girlfriend was pregnant with my daughter. The pastor pulled me to the side and asked me were me and my girlfriend still having sex? This question left me shock and complex. I said no not wanting to be judged by what his reaction would be. I felt that being in church has restrictions and that I can't be free. The evalenglist at my church seems to want me and girlfriend not to be near each other at all. Feels like we are being blocked by an invisible wall. I don't like this feeling. I know the church is suppose to offer peace and healing. I know every church is not like this. But it's just mine that I witnessed. If this judgement continues to occur I will leave. I plan to find another church where there is acceptance with peace and healing that is received.
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