Marriage
Marriage is a big step. You have to be willing to be committed like promises you kept. I have wanted to get married at one point in my life. I wanted to so bad to make my girlfriend my wife. This would push her away. So far to the point she was trying to convince me that she was gay. I came from a family where you get married to your partner. And write your plans down as a couple so you both can go farther. Her family believes you shouldnt meet one guy and settle down. But just talk to several guys and just sleep around. I thougt that marriage would make me happy and complete. Only to be more unhappy with the girl I would meet. As a Christian marriage was enforced as the right thing to do. Until I was looking for answers and I discovered information I never knew. I learned that women are not hardwired to love men. I know this is true because when you are nice to most women they only want to be your friend. They only love the way you make them feel. And if they see as a provider she will only use you for money and a free meal. On tv marriage is portrayed as a goal. But in reality when you are married some couples dont know their role. Two years ago I gave my girlfriend a promise ring. She lost it and told me that it didnt mean a thing. This woke me up also. And it made me think if I married her she would go along with it because she would be afraid to tell me no. Right now marriage is far from my mind. If its meant for me to get married it will happen at the right time.
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