DISCLAIMER!!
I am not in anyway encouraging social media "Loving" and PDA for clout. What I am saying is different.
Private people do have love lives too but very few people know of it. It doesn't mean they are not serious or do not love each other as much.Actually they do and all that matters to them is the feelings they have for each other. First hand opinion, this loving is beautiful, peaceful and hot😉 especially when you both on same page. Those hidden glances, smiles, butterflies, texting and all that is just adorable and priceless. ( that is if u are into the low key thingy)
That said, there's a downside to it. Imagine something really terrible happening to your significant other and you don't even know how to start telling people this person was "your person". It sucks I know that.. So some time ago, I was with this guy l cared about him alot and then he passed away unexpectedly..we were not together at the moment but he was important and closer to me than anybody else knew.. Good thing is, my very close friend knew and she was there for me (I still appreciate that alot). It really did hurt it still does..twas almost like we never existed..yes I mourned alone in my room but it hurt extra cus I couldn't tell people how much deeper I knew him. People had so much to say about him when he was gone but I knew him, I knew who he really was.
This isn't something I wish for anyone.Ever!!. If you love someone let them know and to some extent, don't make your circle too tight. I mean just one person knew I was with that guy when he was alive and when he died I blamed myself for not loving him fully, for keeping him a secret. It's really nobody's business but expand your circle a little bit more.
So on that note, I want to take this opportunity to call out my baby and let the whole world know ...😥😥🤕 wait,say what now?? Scratch that part..😉
But I am sure you all get where I am coming from. Not saying bring them on social media,not saying u shouldn't either only saying don't keep them a secret.
Mimi.
Mid night wild thoughts.
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