black women are taught to love their their spouse in every condition and some traditions say men are allowed to cheat they cant eat a single for the rest of their ,we are taught to respect our spouse wishes and to them its like they are being given a
right to do what ever they want with women and as women we are meant endure it all wheather you cry yourself to sleep every night all it never bothers them all they would ask for is intimacy,black women have been to hell and back in the name of love,marriage and at times these men ensure that they manipulate them until they feel that its their destiny or fate and of cause no one has ever ran away from from fate nor destiny they still choose to endure and the real question is what are these men taught are they taught to respect us as women as much as we are taught to respect them are they taught how to treat a women ,being honest every women wants to feel like a women with her spouse but some of them feel like slaves around them.they always say a man is the head and a women is the neck but some women feel like the hand because they are slaved all around .how can someone call you his wife when not even your opinion nor feelings are respected lmean "4how dare he"women smile because they have to and they love because they are meant to.l have asked couple of
black man as to why are they married and most of them say because they wanted children l mean we were not meant to be loved we were meant just give birth
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