Why it’s difficult to be same, like always??
Sometimes things just happens, a sudden “hello” to unknown and they become life long known. Things just happens…
Many times we quote for others “you changed from the time we meet”. In starting of any relationship, whether friendship or any other relation things seems the way it should be, pleasant and perfect. People try to know each other, mistakes can take place by anyone and the best part they are overlooked for their mistakes. As mistake is part of life, if we are alive we will make mistakes. With that single person we plan whole of our life, our every single moment we start sharing with them. Eg: Hey love,“you know today my father was talking about my sister’s wedding. Yuppie I’m so very excited.” “I think I will wear blue colour dress on this particular function, I will invite you also. Please put on the same colour clothes.” Each and every single thing starts revolving around them. Life seems perfect and BEING SOMEONE’S PRIORITY IS ALWAYS THE BEST FEELING IN. THE WORLD..
Actually it’s human behaviour, to be with the person who always make them feel better and important. But as part and parcel of life things changes, the person who use to talk with us every single time, for whom you were top in their priority list suddenly becomes no one. For them you started making blunders not mistakes. Giving time means fights which they are avoiding and blame comes on you, “ that because of fights, lame fights, I’m avoiding you as I don’t want us to fight.”
Why it happens that suddenly for people we become totally wrong and unbearable? Why they can’t anymore accept the way we are? We are always the reason for fight, why?
As time goes on, it’s better to get updated with that person who was and will always be our priority. As others do with us, we should not repeat the same with others. With our actions, someone’s smile is also connected…
©amigajain
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