A few months ago, I wrote an informative poem about "A Man With An Abundance Mindset," of me understanding male nature on why men cheat? I gave several reasons why men cheat and I understand why men cheat on their girlfriends or wives. I understand why women cheat as well because I cheated on my boyfriend a bunch of times in my past. I came from a family background where everyone in my family was cheaters and liers.
To those that are new to my page, and want to get a better understanding of this of why men cheat? Please read my other informative poem first, "A Man With An Abundance Mindset" to understand how male nature works first.
This topic today is about women. Why do women cheat? Women cheat for several reasons.
For the men that are reading this may relate to this or have experienced a situation in your past of being with a mysterious woman. The woman starts to lose interest in her boyfriend or husband. That is why it is always good to listen to your intuition of what you feel that is off in your relationship. It is the same with a woman listening to her intuition to leave that abusive boyfriend or spouse. Follow your intuition.
4 years ago, I was mysterious and did things behind my boyfriend's back all the time. I was a good cover-up for a while, and I thought I was going to get away with it. He told me that he felt that something was off with me. My behavior started to change. If you are a man and you are curious about your woman. Exam her behavior. Exam the way she acts around you and with other people. You would see inconsistencies in her behavior patterns. She starts to pull away from you. She does not do the same things that she used to do around you when you both first met. If your woman is always consistent in her behavior, that is a sign that she is doing the right thing. She is following your lead in the relationship and that would make you not be curious about her. To the men that are very curious about your woman. Observe her behavior patterns. What I mean by behavior patterns, she may not want to make love to you anymore. She would always make up excuses that she is always busy knowing that she is doing something behind your back. No one can not always be too busy with anything because if you are in a relationship, you would take some time with that person. A man may have a job that he works all week, but he can still put in the time for his woman if he really cares about her. My boyfriend works all week, and he does make time for us. We see each other twice a week, and that is good for me because I always value my space. Another reason, that your woman may not engage in any sexual contact with you anymore. Women are always looking for an upgrade in men. Most women today are never satisfied. The main reason why most women today are always looking for a replacement in men, is because that man is acting like a beta male. Some women value different things. It is all about what is a higher value to her. Women have an interest in different things. Some women value looks. If she goes by looks, she will always find someone who looks better than the man she is with. Some women value status. Some women love a man with high status that is either well known in his community, social media known, celebrity or well known at work, etc... That woman will always look for someone who has more high status than you. Some women value charisma. A woman can value a man by his charismatic charm. It can be the way that man talks to that woman, and that he has swagger. Lastly, some women value money. If you are a beta male provider that always buys and gives your woman money. She is not with you because she loves you, she is only with you for your money. A woman will not leave a beta male. She will always have someone on the side that will be more of a beta provider than you are. When my boyfriend was being a beta male in the past, I would always have someone lined up that is better than him. I would have a side guy on the side that would provide much more than he did.
Beta males are weak. Beta males fall in love easily, and deeply. If you are a beta male always giving your woman validations, complimenting her all the time. It is good to compliment your woman but not all the time. Complimenting your woman all the time can be a turn off to that woman. You have to have a balance in dealing with some women. You have to correct them if they are out of line, not following your lead. If you are in your beta male state, basically your woman runs your relationship. Trust me, you do not want a woman to run the relationship because if you let her run it, you will become weak. You will no longer have any control over that woman. That woman will boss you around and tell you what to do, and most men do not like that. If you do not correct your woman, she will run all over you. If you continue to always correct your woman, that is how you will remain alpha. Alpha males protect and do not let a woman run over them. I used to run all over my boyfriend, and now if I get out of line. He does correct me. To correct your woman, you do not put your hands or yell at that woman. If you physically abuse your woman, you are a beta male. That is being feminine, and a real man does not hit a woman. You only correct your woman when she says or does something wrong in the relationship. Always express how you feel towards your woman. It is not good to hold your feelings inside.
That is why a man should never want to ask that woman for a relationship when you first meet her. That is a woman's job to ask a man for a committed relationship or that she wants to get married. That was a big mistake when my boyfriend wanted me to marry him back then. He would always pressure me to marry him, and I told him I was not ready. I am still not ready for marriage today. It is going to be a very long time when I get married. Whenever I decide to want to get married, that would be my call to make, not his. A man or a woman can not pressure or force you to do something that you do not want to do. It is all about your choice. My boyfriend realized now that he does not want to get married either, because it is a big step and a lot to learn. Marriage is not for everyone and I understand that. If you are a married man or a married woman, God bless you both.
To keep a woman not from cheating, you have to become unpredictable. Women do not like a predictable man. A woman loves a challenge. Be spontaneous, and unpredictable. Do different things with her, and make her feel feminine inside. Show her that you care through your actions and not telling her that you care. Actions speaks louder than some words.
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